什么是旁观者干预?
旁观者干预 is a 性暴力 prevention program that focuses on the importance of prosocial bystander behaviors. The program seeks to empower 电子游戏软件 students to identify 性暴力 as a form of oppression and intervene as a prosocial bystander to prevent oppression. Addition盟友, 旁观者干预 works to promote healthy relationships and bodily autonomy.
项目目标
As a result of participating in 旁观者干预 education, students will be able to:
- 给性暴力下定义，并列举出性暴力的例子
- Articulate ways that they can actively prevent situations that might lead to 性暴力 or any other form of oppression
- Develop personal plans to combat situations that could lead to 性暴力 or any other form of oppression
- 认识到适当行为之间的差异, 笑话, 和图片, 还有那些源于偏见和压迫的
- Identify their own boundaries and know when to ask for help from more experienced professionals
- Know the professional resources available to students on BC’s campus, 比如CARE Team和SANet
Learn More 关于 Bystander Behavior and Sexual Assault Prevention
“旁观者效应”
We know that there are multiple factors that influence the decision of whether or not to intervene when witnessing a potential act of sexual misconduct. 然而, research has shown that the most significant predictive factor is the number of other people who are present when the incident occurs, 这种现象被称为“旁观者效应”。. 通过观看这个视频了解更多关于旁观者效应的知识. Our goal is to reduce the Bystander Effect by spreading awareness about this phenomenon and equipping students with effective intervention strategies.
Our goal is to reduce the Bystander Effect by spreading awareness about this phenomenon and equipping students with effective intervention strategies.
这个视频说明了 the enormous positive impact prosocial bystanders can make in the lives of others. We hope that this video inspires you to intervene in situations of oppression!
Please kindly note that this video may contain topics that are distressing; please proceed with caution and care.
干预技术
Hopefully the previous video gave you a sense of how important it is for bystanders to speak up! 这里有一些关于如何干预的建议. We encourage you to intervene in a way that feels safe and comfortable for you.
If you see a friend or a stranger in a situation that doesn’t seem right, you could:
分散: 把注意力转移到别处. 比如在聚会上, 你可能把饮料洒了, 播放一首流行歌曲, 或者让别人帮你拍照.
单独的: 把相关人员分开. 你可以请人跳舞, 叫你的朋友跟你一起去洗手间, 或者邀请他们去吃宵夜.
招: 向别人寻求帮助. You could recruit the help of your own friends or friends of the people who are involved in the situation. This is especi盟友 helpful if you don’t re盟友 know the people involved. Depending on the situation you may also want to recruit a professional source.
使用以“我”开头的语句: 当使用“我”的陈述时, 你想表达你的感受, 命名行为, 说明你希望对方如何回应. This focuses on your feelings rather than on criticizing the other person.
旁观者的承诺
- I will support survivors on and off 电子游戏软件’s campus by believing, 听, 并赋予他们所需的一切.
- I will intervene when I witness indicators of the perpetration of violence and oppression by using intervention techniques.
- I will educate myself and the 电子游戏软件 community about the importance of consent and how to recognize when it can and cannot be given.
- I will share 电子游戏软件 campus resources, such as the SANet hotline and the CARE team.
- 我会虚心倾听, 心, 倾听他人的观点和经历, particularly those from marginalized and/or underrepresented backgrounds.
为了履行这些承诺，
- I will educate myself and others on how to dismantle oppression, 包括植根于性别歧视的行为, 种族歧视, 残疾歧视, 恐同症, 以及许多其他形式的压迫.
- I will educate myself on how these forms of oppression manifest through 性暴力 and hate speech.
- I will continuously learn about the privileges I hold and be an 盟友 to those who are marginalized.
- I will learn how my individual actions are informed by my prejudices, 有意识的和无意识的, 并致力于忘掉它们.
- I will effectively use my privilege to both interrupt and prevent oppression.
- 我将以尊重和同情的态度对待他人, 努力成为一种资源, 盟友, 也是需要帮助的人的朋友.
- 我会满足自己的情感和生理需求, keeping in mind that practicing self-care and checking in with myself will make me a more effective 盟友.
不正当的性行为 是一个包含性骚扰的广义术语吗, 性侵犯, 以及其他形式的不当行为和性暴力. Sexual misconduct can occur between individuals who know each other, 那些有固定关系的人, those who have previously engaged in consensual sexual activity, 还有互不相识的人之间. Sexual misconduct can be committed by persons of any gender identity, and it can occur between people of the same or different genders.
强奸 身体强迫或其他强迫行为是口头的吗, 阴道, 或者通过威胁插入肛门, 强迫, or without seeking or receiving enthusiastic and continual consent.
性侵犯 is any sexual contact or sexual penetration with another individual without consent.
性骚扰 是否有不受欢迎的性挑逗, 性要求, 以及其他与性有关的言语或身体行为.
跟踪 is a course of behavior directed at a person that would cause a reasonable person to fear for their safety, 或者遭受严重的情绪困扰.
性剥削 is taking sexual advantage of another person and includes recording, 拍摄, or transmitting images of private sexual activity and/or the intimate parts of a person without consent.
Intimate partner violence is any act of violence or a pattern of abusive behavior in an intimate relationship. 它可能包括实际的或威胁的身体暴力, 性暴力, 心理或情感虐待, 渐进式社会隔离.
查看副本 电子游戏软件的性行为不端政策.
同意 is the clear and voluntary agreement to engage in specific acts of sexual contact or activity, 通过相互理解的语言或动作交流的. 同意总是自由告知和主动给予的. Silence or lack of resistance cannot be assumed to imply consent. 同意必须是持续的，并且可以随时撤回. 同意 for one sexual act does not imply consent for any subsequent sexual activity. 如果在性行为中出现困惑或模棱两可, it is imperative that the behavior stop and the person initiating the activity has the other person’s consent to continue. 在下列情况下，不得获得同意:
- 来自无行为能力的个人;
- Through the use of 强迫 or force; or
- From a person who is under the legal age to give consent (16 years of age in Massachusetts).